Resolute.some decision are not to be made rashly, incautiously, impulsively. But once made one should stand by it. To waver signifies the one's inablitly to trust his own judgement, casting self doubts. If inital dicision can be wrong, what makes one thinks the alternate decision will be correct? It may be wrong as well.If so, other things in one's life may be wrong.Trust your judgement and live by it, by doing so u can assure that your decisions were correct, from start to finish, all course alterations were based on preceeding events that were given much thoughts and not of rashness and impulsiveness. There will be no regrets.I never want to live in regrets, therefore i make my judgement wisely, weigh the consequences and live by my actions. I will not turn back, but move forward. To turn back and look for second chances is the result of regrets and remorse.In the first place, why make a choice that one will regret later on?i do have my fair share of mistakes but i can assure myself it's the better choice, nothing is perfect. I can find assurance in the way that i do things that i've done possibly whatever i can and that nothing can be done anymore. There is no self doubt, because all choice are carefully weighted to begin with. There can be no self doubt, reality dun spare chances. Only human do, but merely out of courtesy and pity, perhaps in the hope that if we screw up other's will return the favour.But the simple fact still remain, nothing has changed. A decision still has been made, things set in motion and course altered.
Anyway i believe that if one doubts himself, there can be no way to convince himself that he has done his best, nothing would be enough, and no reward would be deserving. Worse, that person would apply it to the rest of the world.
I will not self doubt, because if so, all my subsequent decisions could be wrong, would be wrong.
There will come a time that people will depend on my decisions and i do not want to be wrong. In life learn to make careful judgement call, who knows one day u will have to make a call that will affect the lives of millions or change history.
We learn to handle our own shit first before we handle other's.
